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In Loving MemoryMy father was a simple man. A man who taught me that actions speak for one’s character, not words. He was part of a generation often referred to as the “Greatest Generation.” Men who lined up to serve their country because it was the right thing to do, and died by the hundreds of thousands doing it. None of us would be here today without the sacrifice of men like my dad and his Brothers and now these WW II heroes are dying at the rate of 1000 per day. We must never forget their sacrifice and bravery, in the face of evil. The same goes for those fighting for us today. Fortunately, God was watching over Dad and he returned safely to the USA and found true love in my mother Donna 60 years ago and started a family. Despite hard work and long hours, Judy and I had no doubt his sacrifices were to give us a better life. Charles Breiner was a gentle man in every sense of the word. That is, unless he was waging one of his epic battles to wrestle the check from an unsuspecting waiter's hands before someone else got the tab. He taught us about random acts of kindness, long before the book. His legacy to me is one of devotion to family, honesty, sacrifice, trust, and modesty. In the mid 80’s dad was diagnosed with ALS, Lou Gehrigs disease. Facing a certain and horrific death just as he entered retirement, the doctor told him to travel and enjoy the limited time he had left. He told my Mother “why would I want to do that and be away from my family.” God was watching over Dad once again because after years of enduring tests and experimental treatments, all of the other patients in his group had passed away and the doctors treating him admitted a mis-diagnosis. His “new lease on life” was not squandered. He glowed with every minute spent with his family, especially his children and grand-children and again his actions spoke loud and clear. When Shelley and I established a children’s charity, Mr. Chuck quickly became a fixture. He volunteered everyday for 10 years, passionate in knowing that regardless of the task, it was worth doing because his sacrifice brought joy to sick children. I have always tried to make my Father proud and let my actions honor his legacy. Recently, when being compared to my Dad (by Aunt Barbara) with the saying, “the apple doesn't fall far from the tree” I received the greatest compliment anyone could have bestowed upon me. My promise to my Father and the greatest gift I could give him, is to continue his legacy. To be the best Husband, Father, and someday Grand-Father I can be. To keep my eye on the ball on what is important in our brief visit on earth, and to inspire my children to do the same. Mr. Chuck’s life was blessed with more frequent episodes of cries of laughter and joy, than those of sorrow. He is now in a place where he can enjoy the eternal fruits that a life of goodness provides. Love, |
Father, Husband, FriendAs we go through our journey in life, especially as a young adult, we wonder what life holds for us. We often find ourselves asking questions: what will my spouse look like, will I have children, how many, will I like my in-laws, etc. To sum up my own answers to these thoughts, Dad Breiner (my father-in-law) was one of the kindest, most selfless, considerate, and giving men I know. He felt lucky knowing the people he met during his journey of almost 90 years; to me, I feel the luckiest of all. How many people can say they had the best father-in-law? Dad Breiner was a true gentleman who was also a great role model for loyalty, commitment and respect. He was an enormous man of character and dedication to all he knew—most importantly, his family! He will be forever missed, but not forgotten, his legacy will live on forever through his family and all who have been touched by this angel, Charles Andrew Breiner. I am also grateful that he gave me my husband, who is the shadow of his father’s character and integrity. Thank you, Dad Breiner, may you rest in peace and know we will all be together again one day soon.
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The Quintessential Expression of Fatherhood
I’d like to take a moment to recognize and thank every one of you for making the effort to come here so that we could all be together today as we remember the life of my dad, Charles Andrew Breiner. When I was in the 10th grade, our English teacher gave us an assignment to write a “portrait” of someone who inspired us. While I struggled a bit with the details, I knew right away that I would be writing about my dad. He was an inspiration for me — He was hardworking, loving, loyal, and considerate. He was handsome, yet humble; he had a playful nature and a good sense of humor. And while the essay I wrote at the time is now gone, I’d like to share with you the basic theme of that portrait. I think daddy was the quintessential expression of fatherhood. He was not the kind of father we saw on TV or movies—not a “Father Knows Best” kind of father, nor a “Godfather” kind of father, nor even a righteous “Forefather” kind of dad. And he was definitely not a “cool dude” dad either. No. Daddy was a man who simply loved children — all children really, but those who were part of his family in particular. All of us here today — all of his nieces and nephews, his grandchildren, even the friends of these children were the beneficiaries of his warmth, humor and even pranks. Daddy’s countenance would light up in our presence, as though we were some kind of treasure. And we would understand from the moment he laid his eyes on us, that we were special to him and central to his life, and his heart. So when each of us married, he brought our spouses into the circle of his love and protection, not to mention his beloved grandchildren. For Mark and myself—we experienced the complete security and comfort of knowing that we were the highest priority in his life, his center, his source of joy and pure delight. What child would not luxuriate and be nourished by that splendid feeling? Of course, that didn’t mean we were spared his playful teasing! So you might think that he’d have come up with some really super deluxe nickname for me, his only daughter—at least something like “princess” or “precious”…But no—I think he cleverly sent us a message, Mark and me, that we should not think ourselves too privileged, nor above anyone else…Mostly he called me “peanut,” or sometimes, I was Olive Oyl — those being the now long lost days when my feet looked like canal boats attached to very skinny legs. Even though he never had the chance to attend college, Daddy let us know that education was very important to him, and he definitely expected us to attend college. Yet he couldn’t help teasing. Whenever I proudly announced to him that I had gotten A’s on my report card, daddy would say, “What! No A+’s???” I would try to explain that no one gets A+’s at our school!!! But I knew by his proud smile, his hugs and expression, that he was indeed very pleased with me. So it was that he inspired me to do well in school. Charles Andrew Breiner, our father, was a quiet man who had simple tastes, humility and great integrity. He took pleasure in teasing us kids, while he kvelled over us, provided for us, nourished us, and made us feel secure and loved in the most essential way, and for that we will be forever grateful. I will end by saying that we all recognize that daddy was such a happy family man because he had his beloved wife (our mom) Donna by his side for almost 60 years. They were devoted to each other and carefully orchestrated their roles. Together they cultivated a hamish family life full of togetherness, celebrations, joy and, of course, delicious food! Love, |
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Hero. Family Man. Forever Loved.Charles Andrew Breiner, 89, a resident of Tampa, and earlier of Hollywood, Florida, died on Monday, July 18, 2011. He was born in Newark, New Jersey on September 22, 1921, son of Edward “Max” and Pauline Breiner. Charles (aka, Chuck or Charlie) was a graduate of Mattawan High School in 1938 and a local business school two years later; he enlisted in the Army Air Corps in 1942. He and his two brothers, Henry and Joseph, were stationed in the European theater. Charles served in England, France, Germany and Belgium; he received the American Service medal, Good Conduct Medal, World War II victory medal and EAME Service Medal. After returning to the states in 1946, he remained in the Army Reserves until 1949. In 1946, Charles moved to Hollywood, Florida and with his brother, Henry, and their father, built a service station, “Breiner Brothers” AMOCO, on North Dixie Hwy that remained in operation for approximately 25 years. Subsequently, he became a property appraiser and worked with long-time friend, Ronald Ames, a mortgage broker in Hollywood. In 1951, he met and married his wife of almost 60 years, Diana “Donna” Breiner, who liked to say that she captured the town bachelor just before he turned thirty. Chuck was a very family oriented man and soon after marrying, he and Donna had two children, whom they raised with loving care. As a businessman and a father, he leaves a legacy of great integrity, kindness, good humor and devotion. When Chuck “retired” he moved to Tampa in 1988. After retirement, he volunteered for many years for the Kid’s Wish Network, a non-profit organization, established and run by his son and daughter-in-law. Charles was predeceased by his sister, Florence, and his brother, Henry. He is survived and remembered lovingly by his wife Donna Breiner of Tampa, his brother Joseph, his children, Judy and Mark Breiner, their respective spouses, four grandchildren, and eight nieces and nephews. Funeral services were held in Hollywood, Florida, at Hollywood Memorial Gardens on Thursday, July 21. |

Anna
Executive Director
Kids Wish Network
I write this tribute in behalf of my entire family as Chuck Breiner (Uncle Chuck) was the most gentle of men who always opened his home and his heart to his family and friends. He was a man of few words but sincere and thoughtful actions. He and his devoted wife, Donna, raised two lovely children who I am proud to call my cousins. He was a tireless worker who would lend a hand to any endeavor that involved a tool or machine…I envied those ever so handy skills of his…and he certainly knew how to make a perfect Manhattan! In every respect he will be missed but forever loved.
I remember as a child when we use to visit Uncle Chuck and Aunt Donna in Hollywood. I was the one incharge of cleaning folks windshields at the station. I am not sure what the wages were at that time however, I did recieve five bucks from Uncle Chuck for my labor. Uncle Chuck wasa big part of my life.I went through alot of things in my life (not all good). Even in my darkest days with my drug addiction as well as lifes problems, he once never judge me and would incourage me to be strong. You know, I still today remember a letter I recieved from him a few years back. The jist of the letter was simple (I AM PROUD OF YOU). Now my life has turned for the better. I am married to a Angle have 4wonderful chilren and a job were I help others with the same issues as I once had. I guess I really need to thank Uncle Chuck for never giving up on me and believing I could. You are missed and loved by me. Uncle Chuck…….I LOVE YOU Neil Breiner
there are only a few who touch the lives of many. charlie breiner inspired his brothers, friends, family, children and grandchildren in a very quiet, gentle spirit which showed us all what life was truly about. love, honor, acceptance, dignity, did i say love, and a tie to family that nothing could ever penetrate. with a gentle heart, he taught us all about what is important in life. with a gentle hug, he helped us all to be what is important in life. he will always be present in all of us for he taught us how to laugh, live, love, and be.
He made a big impact with his quiet ways. He taught his family about work ethics and being honest and honorable. The greatest testimony of a man is his family, and your family is a tribute to him. We love you and you are in our prayers.
Love,
Bob, Janet, Robert and Jonathan
I have such wonderful memories of Mr. Chuck and I am grateful to have had the privilege of knowing him and working alongside him on the many days that he would come to work with his water cooler in hand. I will always treasure the time I had with him as I’m sure you will too. He was a great and kind gentleman. He will be deeply missed. Your sorrow is shared.
Love,
Tam
The Chuck we knew is the Chuck we admired. We remember Chuck as a kind, sweet guy who always put other people’s concerns ahead of his own. He was also a terrifically good listener, showing sympathy and understanding when it mattered most.
Love,
Gerry and Hank
Uncle Charlie was the kindest, nicest, most gentle man. I can still remember his kind smile. I’m so thankful we had that time with him and only wish we could’ve gotten more.
With much love,
Brett, Maggie, Ellie, Addison & Taylor
I was so sorry to learn of Chuck’s passing. I remember how he charmed me the first time we met.
Lita
There are so many feelings of sorrow. I do feel like I lost someone really special who touched my life. It’s for sure that we will meet again.
Love,
Lynn
He was such a sweet man and he will be missed by all of us.
My love to you all,
Gladys
Those of us who had the pleasure of knowing him enjoyed his wonderful smile and kind personality.
The Brandeis Women’s Comittee